Over the past few years I have helped several friends plan their weddings.
First it was my sweet friend (and former nanny) Lauren.
Then it was the lovely Alyssa, inspiration for the famous wedding emergency kit.
Most recently I had the pleasure of helping my friends at Looksi and Shutterfly plan a rustic backyard wedding reception.
{While I have been compensated for this post, all of the ideas and opinions expressed within are my own.}
There's something so magical about a wedding. It is the blending of two lives: two lives that are full of rich history. What better way to celebrate a bright future than with pictures from the past—pictures that capture the people and paths that led the bride and groom to each other.
In this sweet and simple backyard reception, a table is set exclusively for the attendants.
In lieu of place cards we used these metal plaques from Shutterfly to indicate where the attendants should sit. Each has a picture of the attendant with the bride or groom from some point in their history. In this case all of the attendants were either siblings or childhood friends of the happy couple, so we had lots of fun photos to choose from. In the image below the bride is pictured with her sister (and maid of honor).
The caption reads: "Maddy with Maid of Honor (and sister) Lucy." In this next shot we have a similar picture of the groom and his best man/brother.
I chose these plaques, with their "barn wood frames," specifically because they match the rustic theme of the reception. I like the fact that the pictures are superimposed on metal so there are no concerns about them falling and breaking.
Let's turn our attention for a moment to the sign behind the table. Early in the planning stages I knew I wanted to have a chalkboard sign of some sort for decoration. The problem? I didn't have a chalkboard. I fully intended to purchase one when I came up with this idea instead. Using an empty frame that I already owned (you might remember it from this post), I simply taped some black Kraft paper to the back using painter's tape. Voila! Instant chalkboard.
And although you can totally write on the paper in chalk, my handwriting is—shall we say—less than beautiful, so I simply cut out some white letters on the Silhouette and made the sign that way. In the event that you don't own an empty frame, you could just as easily tape some black Kraft paper over an existing picture. Then when you're done simply remove the paper and dispose of it.
But back to the reception...
As guests entered the backyard they were directed to a small vineyard where they were invited to sign the guest "book". Book is in quotes because it was not actually a book at all. Instead, it was a piece of Wooden Wall Art from Shutterfly, featuring the church from the ceremony. At the bottom is a caption with the couples' names and wedding date. I love this idea because after the guests sign the picture it becomes a lovely memento for the couple to hang in their new home. (Note: we started out using Sharpies for the signatures but they bled the tiniest bit so we switched to extra fine tip felt markers which were perfect for the job.)
(church photo credit: Kelly Elko, Eclectically Vintage)
One last fun idea from Shutterfly is the table runner that graced this table.
There are four spots for pictures so we thought it would be fun (and in keeping with our theme) to use pictures of the bride and groom as children next to pictures from their own parents' weddings.
I feel like these runners are just perfect for a wedding because, in addition to the four pictures, there is also a spot for a one-letter monogram. What better way to commemorate the fact that from this point forward they will be one, sharing the same last initial?
Much like the wooden wall art, this table runner is sure to become a family treasure that the couple will use for years to come.
